well, you know I'm in a (very) Long Distance Relationship (LDR) now.
it's not the first time though because most of my relationship are LDR.
and they never work out because I never trust a man except my dad before, whereas "trust" is the most important thing in LDR.
because you guys won't see each other for a long time and you guys won't know what your partner do if they don't tell you.
for real, there are always 4 possibilities in LDR:
1. your partner tell the truth and you trust them
2. your partner tell the truth and you think it's a lie
3. your partner lies and you believe it
4. your partner lies and you know it
but for you who put all your trust on your trust on your partner then number 1 and number 3 are the only 2 possibilities. if he/she lies to you, then it's their problem. you don't have to worry because they just throw up something precious. :)
okay. second important thing is you yourself, better don't lie.
if you want them to not lie to you, then do the same. even though it's something bad, tell them the truth. they probably will be mad, but believe me, it won't last. =]
at this time I believe that I'm doing what they call "sharing".
next, don't be jealous.
I am a jealous person. I don't like my man being touched by another woman. but to tolerate that, I make my jealously as a joke. sometimes, I tell my man, I'll kill any woman who touches him. I don't know if I'll do it or not though. :p
ah, and you can be jealous if they allow you to be. =]
stay away from fight is important. LDR reduces this possibility to seeing each other and clear your problem. if your partner don't want to talk to you, they can just turn off their phone and live their life as usual.
keep informing each other. you know communication is also important. don't think you'll be bored if you talk everyday. the fact is, talk to each other everyday builds more internal connection between you two. :D
SAY "I LOVE YOU" every time! I mean, EVERY SINGLE TIME you can.
you're mad, you're tired, you're sad, you're happy, every time!
I've got used to say "I love you" every time I'm done talk with my man. I'm not gonna let this anger or bad feelings stop me from saying "I love you" and mean it.
damn. I've been up since 1:53. and I think I should sleep now.
I love you readers. :)